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Fairytale words

By Kimberli Bindschatel

Why Are Bad Words Bad?

Hm. Well, so recently I was given the (great) advice to remove the more offensive swear words from my Poppy novels. Apparently, this will broaden my audience potential. Sure, I’m up for that. An occasional F-bomb from Poppy isn’t exactly necessary. (And so I have, removed them that is.) But the entire conversation made me wonder: why are these words so offensive that someone would refuse to read a story that contains one? Especially when readers know the story contains violence and criminals? Of course these people use the F-word.

This harkens back to my post of July 16 where I spoke about violence in this country. Is that it? Are  we so conditioned to the violence that we don’t mind it, but swearing is still somehow taboo? Crushing someone’s skull is blasé, pass the ketchup please, but don’t utter a four-letter word?

As a writer, one who strives for realism, it feels to me that avoiding these words makes for fake dialogue. It feels like I’m sugar-coating the real issues, like I’m making some fairytale version of the truth.

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Filed Under: Thoughts to Ponder Tagged With: f-bomb, swearing, violence

Oh so horny

By Kimberli Bindschatel

Here are 5 American sex norms Europeans think are crazy

Today I’m pondering sex in our culture. Why? Two experiences collided. The first, recent comments from readers and friends regarding Poppy’s sexuality. The second, an article I read about how Europeans think American views on sex are batshit crazy. (Yep, that’s a quote from the article.) You can read it here.

The article discusses issues that I’ve pondered such as the casual prevalence of violence in this country vs. the outright denouncement of anything sex-related, how slut-shaming is commonplace, how we fear any human physical contact might be misconstrued as sexual (no hugs for you!). It really is messed up, if you ask me. The legacy of a puritan heritage is perpetuating a lot of pent up anger.

So, I have to ask: what is so wrong about sex? The hormones released during sex alone could make the world a better place. Sex, love and peace on Earth, my friends.

 

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Filed Under: Thoughts to Ponder Tagged With: sex, sexuality, violence

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